Numerous studies have shown that children whose parents are divorced or separated are more likely to develop psychiatric disorders compared to those living in a stable and complete home. The impact of divorce on minors can be significant, affecting their emotional stability and having repercussions over the years.
Generally, the determining factor in the appearance of negative reactions in children after a divorce is the interactions they maintain with their parents, both before and after the separation. Specifically, conflict between parents has been identified as more harmful than the separation itself. When the parents' separation involves conflicts and disputes, it acts as a risk factor for the mental health of minors.
The agreements that need to be made in separation situations, such as custody, child support, changes of residence and school, among others, can vary in each family. The lack of agreements and conflict between parents can leave children in a vulnerable situation, being the main ones affected by the situation.
The impact of divorce on children varies according to their age. At ages 5-7, children begin to develop emotional awareness, allowing them to discern their feelings and emotions. Although at this age the emotional impact is not so evident, changes in their behavior and attachment are observed. Symptoms of distress may manifest through irritability, crying, sleep and eating disorders.
As children grow, the effects of divorce manifest differently. Pre-adolescents may experience fear of losing one or both parents, feelings of abandonment and betrayal, as well as anxiety and depression disorders. Adolescents tend to present depressive episodes, anxiety, suicidal ideation, and changes in their value system and perception of the future.
Children and adolescents from divorced parents often experience feelings of vulnerability, loss, and rejection. These feelings can affect their emotional well-being, self-esteem, and interpersonal relationships, generating a significant impact on their mental health and development.
At C7 Mental Health, we understand the importance of providing support to children and adolescents going through difficult situations such as their parents' divorce. We offer psychotherapy services, as well as courses and workshops designed to help face the challenges of everyday life from a positive and constructive perspective. You matter! Don't hesitate to reach out to us for the support and guidance you need.
